Sex Positions – Get Multiple Orgasms Without Help Of Porn Films And Dirty Sexy Pictures

Are you thinking of trying out a new sex position? Is the reason for this because your sex life at the minute is boring. Or, maybe you’ve been looking at dirty magazines filled with pictures of naked men and women in the bare flesh enjoying sex moves you never dreamed was possible, and now you’re desperate for some of the action. Well why not, you’re only human after all.

Some people who find they can’t break the habit of looking at dirty pictures and watching porn movies, feel a sense of guilt for getting all hot and bothered under the collar, and think what they do is disgusting, and that it isn’t normal, well it is, so why the panic? I’d be more inclined to worry if at the time of watching blue movies that you didn’t get all sweaty and do some heavy panting.

Sex films and porn magazines can be real eye openers to say the least, and purposely created to make the penis throb and vagina pulsate, so, if getting all hot and bothered makes you happy and you are not harming others, then continue doing what you do.

Playboy mags and porn films tend to have this magical effect on people. They give cause for the imagination to run wild, and more often than not these people want to copy what they see, but is this a good thing? Yes of course it is, that is as long as their partner is up for it.

Warning: Before you make a move on your lover to fulfil your own desires, make sure this is what they desire too.

Communication gets you answers. If the green light to go ahead is to be given, talk things through with your boyfriend/girlfriend beforehand. If you get a no to the proposed sex position you want to try out, don’t force the issue, but rather wait till the time is right to ask again.

Sexual intercourse is only good if both people come out from under the sheets satisfied. Disaster looms for any relationship when only one person leaves the bed pleased with themself. Avoid putting a strain on your relationship by making sure you know what your partners likes and dislikes are.

Sex Positions:

Not all positions are easy to get the hang of the first time round, but with practice the pair of you will master it. Remember, it takes two to tango, as this also applies to having sex. Both people need to make the effort for a gratifying result.

1. Happy scissors: The woman during sexual intercourse will need to raise her legs upright. The man will gently, I repeat, gently, grip each ankle spreading her legs open, parting them at 80 degrees or whatever. It’s easy to get overly excited at this point, so the man needs to be careful and in control to avoid causing pain or injury to the woman. Bruising to the ankles may happen if the mans grip is to tight, and as for parting her legs, he needs to remember they’ll only open so far. This is called the happy scissor sex position, not the sad one, so take care. While the tendons of the legs pivot deep in the pelvic cavity, jostling them to and fro will subtly change sensations in the lower region for both genders.

2. Sexy stack: This includes the man kneeling down resting his buttocks on the back of his calves. The woman will sit on his lap over his erect penis with both legs straddled either side of his thighs. Start rocking and the friction will cause multiple orgasms.

3. Shake ‘n’ bake: If you’d like a stimulating break from intercourse, the shake ‘n’ bake sex move is the ideal way to do this. How its done: The man will withdraw his penis and rest the tip on the clitoris. He’ll then grip the base of the penis and shake it from side to side so the head makes contact with the clitoris with every shake.

4. Loaded pistol: The man will sit on the bed and lean back on his arms. It’s important the man gets comfortable for this sexual activity. The woman will settle over him with her legs straddled, leaning back on her arms also. Now the pair of you will work together building up a sexy momentum by thrusting and leaning simultaneously. This is a fantastic sex position for hitting the G-spot every go.

5. Predator: This requires the woman get on all fours so the man can enter from behind, leaving his hands free to do some stimulating hand work. This particular sex position allows the man to reach the vagina with his hands whilst his penis is still locked inside the woman from the rear. This sex move is a sort of two for the price of one, (the woman will pleasure from both angles).

6. Bend over backwards: The man will lie on his back, and the woman get on and straddle him. The woman should lean back slowly with her arms resting on the bed or floor for support. Ideal sex move for clitoral stimulation as well as deep penetration.

7. Magical: Only for the energetic: The woman lies flat on her back. The man will lift the womans legs up to his shoulders and wrap them around his neck. On penetration he will hold her hips giving him more control over his thrusts. G-spot bliss!

8. Love-locked: Both people need to be on their side facing each other. His legs need to be pushed between hers, and hers wrapped around his hips as he penetrates. Fantastic sex position for clitoral stimulation!

9. Seated scissors: This move lets the woman have control in order to determine the depth and angle of penetration, as well as how much clitoral stimulation she gets. This requires the man lying down with his knees bent and the woman straddling him. She will place one leg to the side of his hip, and the other between his legs. She will now locate the ideal spot to grind against his pubic bone while his penis is still engaged inside. This sex position is controlled more so by the woman, where she decides on the pace, depth, and the amount of pressure and friction she wants.

Why Porn Addiction is Not the Reason That Men Frequently Masturbate

There are many things in life that are absolute certainties, other than the usual ‘death and taxes’. Every human infant will cry. Everyone will see their own blood. Everyone will experience physical pain. We will all know heartache and grief, joy and embarrassment. And men will masturbate. There are no if’s, buts, or maybe’s about that fact. While a growing percentage of women are being a little less coy about admitting their own self pleasure, men have been pretty open about it for years. We all do it. We all talk about it. It’s part of ‘male’ culture, for a huge variety of reasons. And it can be a problem for women to accept. It doesn’t really matter if a man is married, divorced, widowed, single, engaged, homosexual, or any combination of those. It doesn’t matter if he is newly married, in love for the first time, in a long standing relationship, or if his girlfriend is a glamorous model. He will masturbate. A lot of women will be appalled to hear that fact, but they should do their best to accept it. Take a look at your partner ladies. Just because you might never have seen him doing it, don’t think for one second that he doesn’t. He does. We all do. Why we hear you women ask.

Why would a man want to masturbate, jack off, beat, or whatever the latest slang name is, when he has got me available? The answer is simple. Fantasy. When it comes to sex, men are lazy. If we could lay back and do nothing, believe me, we would. Sex is great but it can be hard work. Every single woman is different. Some women can have an orgasm in ten seconds. Some in twenty minutes. Many need far more specific attention and the right type of contact to achieve their own level of satisfaction. So if a man can enter into a fantasy world, where his sexual partner is everything he can dream of, has no demands on him, and gives him exactly the same result as sex, then he will do so. Women will understand all about fantasy. This may also be the reason that women masturbate. The difference between the sexes seems to be that men can become aroused almost instantly, especially using visual stimuli and imagination, like a porn movie, while women often require far more subtle aural, sensual, and actual stimulation.

So ladies, imagine this. You come home from work late, your man has metamorphosised into Brad Pitt, Denzel Washington, the Milk Tray Man, or whoever your most recent favourite is. Not only that, he has also made your favourite dinner, washed the dishes, lit the right smelling candles, put them all in the right places, relaxing music soothes your ears in surround sound, he has ironed your blouse and skirt for tomorrow, has run your bath, and is standing ready to massage your aching limbs at the merest snap of your fingers. He then proceeds to seduce you with the right words, the right touch, the right actions, the right amount of kissing at the right times. His arms have the right amount of muscle, so does his six pack, his body feels right, he smells like you want him to, and when you make love, he does everything that you want, in just the right way, and without being told to. Mind blowing.

Pure fantasy. Now women have to accept that for men, it is very similar, except that men don’t need to ‘feel’ sexy. Porn is a quick stimulus for most men, but the fantasy itself is the biggest turn on. Many men find porn films as fake as the female stars breasts. The acting is at times quite pathetic, the scenarios are unreal, and the action is, for want of a better word, limp. Pornography just gives a man a helping hand to become aroused. Men imagine that his fantasy woman will do anything just for him. Things which maybe his real life partner would not consider. His real woman might not like oral sex, she might not make noise during the act, she might not like a certain position, she might only do it in the dark, and she may not have an orgasm through intercourse.

However, his fantasy woman craves oral sex, even licks her lips at the thought, she screams his name in ecstasy, and grunts with pleasure like the Williams sisters at Wimbledon, she is an expert in every position known to man, would willingly have sex in broad daylight in the middle of the nearest Olympic Stadium, and has a toe curling orgasm within seconds. Once again pure fantasy.

Because masturbation is a completely self controlled pastime, it shouldn’t and usually doesn’t have any bearing on a real relationship. It can even at times make sex more compelling. It should never be seen as a problem, unless a man seems to prefer to masturbate rather than have sexual intercourse with a real woman. But generally, women have to accept that when a man has hold of his own penis, he is opening the door to a completely false world, even though it is very erotic to him. The majority of men prefer the real thing, but still love to slip into that fantasy every so often.

Does Virtual Reality Porn Mean the End of Humanity?

I recently read an article by gaming blogger Nathan Grayson who tried Virtual Reality (VR) porn. Knowing what I know about the effect high speed Internet porn is having on people’s sex lives after spending 2 years researching porn addiction and its relationship to the porn industry, I shuddered when Grayson quoted this anonymous man…

“At first it felt surreal and disconnected, but I timed myself to get off at the same time she did,” said this person, who preferred to remain anonymous. “And suddenly, I came, and we had that moment of [exhausted breathing sounds]. She was breathing at the same time. And then she looked me in the eye and leaned in and said, ‘I love you, baby.’ I was like, ‘Wow, that was amazing.’ And then I realized I’d only had that experience with a few girlfriends in my life. That’s when I realized this shit is crazy. To connect with a human you need so many things, and this achieved it almost immediately. This girl was there with me, and she recognized me, and she appreciated me.”

To go from “strangers” to “joint orgasm” to “I love you baby” with a sexy avatar that “appreciates you” in minutes is seriously mindblowing because of the implications of what that will do for normal sexual relations for the long term. Not having to make any efforts to having the sexual and emotional devotion of a “someone” – even if that “someone” is an avatar – will be very appealing to some. Imagine it… Never again having to shave, wash, change out of your sweaty work clothes or clean your teeth to get lovingly laid; never again having to face rejection because you are shy, have acne or are socially phobic; never again having to go through the often tedious motions of courting someone…

As things stand today, many escalating porn users have already stopped having sex with their partners in the main – unless their partners act like porn performers and even then interest in the partner wanes over time unless that person keeps upping the ante on their “porn performances” in synch with their partner’s escalating sexual needs or adds more people to the sexual mix. In the 20 odd years since the Internet entered our lives and high speed Internet porn replaced having to buy VHS porn videos from Adult Stores or Mail Order, sexual relations between couples have changed dramatically. According to my research, more and more people are beginning to see their real naked partners as just bad porn; increasing numbers of this generation of young men are still virgins in their 20s and 30s or get “porn creep” when they try to have sex (an inability to get an erection) or just generally have erectile dysfunction due to compulsive masturbation.

In the article, the blogger writes “Maybe we’ll stop having sex with each other. Maybe this is the end of humanity.” He doesn’t know how close to the truth he is with that statement…

Because of the science behind porn addiction (you can find an article I wrote about that ON THIS PAGE ), and addicts needing to keep pumping the brain chemicals dopamine and adrenaline around their bodies, pretty soon, everything will have been done in real person porn (apart from live porn with addicts trussed up to high tech vagina or penis simulated equipment) and then VR porn will truly take the stage in a big way. In a sea of free Internet porn, the Industry is now struggling to make money. The only porn which makes money today is porn which gets adrenaline increasingly released into the body during benders – things that addicts are gradually exposed to as a bender progresses – like anal relapses, “shemales”, and ultra violent “forced”/ rape porn for example. Porn addicts are addicted to adrenaline and dopamine big time and this is what keeps them coming back to porn day after day and why porn is so defended by people in general and addicts in particular. It’s simply the pleasure principle jacked up to the teeth. I don’t buy the Free Speech arguments. That’s all puff and wind to distract from the real issue of the fear of having orgasms on tap taken away.

When VR porn settles into our future, it will tick every box. It will give addicts the “intimacy” they crave that they are not having with their partners – or anyone at all if still virgins – and will pump dopamine and adrenaline levels through the roof because there is no end to how violent, crazed or grotesque VR porn can go – like its younger high speed Internet porn sibling before it. At present, there are only so many penises the industry can currently fit into real performers and only so much violence they can heap on them before they break inside (physically and psychologically) but in VR porn there will be no such limits – a pornographers dream.

VR porn may just turn out to be the last nail in the coffin of real intimacy between couples and may fully seal the deal for humanity in the process when people finally masturbate themselves into extinction.

Here is Nathan Grayson’s article